Girlish Gurus

Friends Joy & Lorraine discuss a variety of topics that matter to women mid-life and beyond. Thoughtful and engaging conversations covering everything from our overall wellbeing to creativity and travel.

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As the year gently comes to a close and we enter the sacred space of Christmas and reflection, this episode of Girlish Gurus is the perfect invitation to pause, breathe, and reconnect with what truly matters.
We are honored to welcome Jenny Dubay—author, speaker, and trauma-informed coach—whose work bridges ancient feminine wisdom with modern-day healing. Jenny writes historical fiction inspired by medieval women mystics, particularly those who lived through chaos, suffering, and spiritual fire… and emerged transformed.
Her latest novel centers on St. Catherine (Caterina) of Siena, a fourteenth-century mystic whose life and words still ignite courage, purpose, and inner authority centuries later. One of Caterina’s most powerful quotes anchors this episode:
“If you are who you ought to be, you will light a fire in all the world.”
As we end the year—and stand on the threshold of a new one—this conversation feels especially meaningful. Christmas invites us into light, hope, and renewal, and Jenny’s work reminds us that even in the darkest times, transformation is possible.
This episode is a beautiful companion for midlife women who are reflecting on the year behind them, healing old wounds, or feeling called to step more fully into who they are becoming.
 
In This Episode, We Explore:
✨ Who St. Catherine (Caterina) of Siena truly was✨ Why the fourteenth century mirrors so much of today’s world✨ What drew Jenny to write about Caterina’s life✨ The depth of research behind the novel—and how long it took✨ How Jenny weaves historical fact with fiction✨ The spiritual and symbolic meaning behind the book’s title✨ Jenny’s favorite quote from St. Catherine of Siena✨ Her favorite character (other than Caterina herself)✨ How Jenny’s trauma-informed coaching influences her writing✨ What she’s working on next
 
Why This Episode Is Perfect for Christmas & Year-End Reflection
Christmas is a season of light, incarnation, and hope—and this conversation gently echoes those themes. St. Catherine lived in a world marked by plague, division, and uncertainty, yet she embodied faith, courage, and purpose. Her story reminds us that light is not the absence of darkness, but the choice to show up fully anyway.
As we close out the year, this episode invites you to reflect on:
Who you’ve been this year
What you’ve walked through
And who you are becoming
It’s a reminder that your life, your voice, and your presence matter—especially now.
 
Guest Bio
Jenny Dubay is an author, speaker, and trauma-informed coach. She writes historical fiction inspired by medieval mystics—women who walked through suffering and spiritual fire and emerged with grace that still speaks across centuries. Through her nonfiction and coaching work, Jenny offers reflections, resources, and gentle guidance for healing from trauma, betrayal, and spiritual wounds.
🌐 Learn more at: https://www.jennydubay.com
 
Closing Invitation
Whether you’re listening by the glow of Christmas lights, during a quiet winter walk, or as part of your year-end reflection ritual, this episode is a gift—one that reminds us we are meant to light the world in our own unique way.
✨ If this conversation speaks to your heart, please share it with a woman you love and leave a review—it helps our Girlish Gurus community continue to grow.
Here’s to ending the year with meaning… and stepping into the new one on fire. 🔥✨
RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Lifeline Screening: Get Peace of Mind
Connect with The Girlish Gurus:
💖 Follow us for more inspiration, humor, and midlife magic: @GirlishGurus🎧 Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts💫 Visit GirlishGurus.com
For the full episode: YouTube
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Sunday Dec 07, 2025

In this episode of Girlish Gurus, Joy and Lorraine chat about healthy, easy & yummy homemade gifts you can create for family & friends!  Everyone can be healthy for the holidays!
Both easy and delicious, we are excited for you to bring some Season's Eatings flair to your holiday table.  Here's to a deliciously healthy holiday season!
 
Some of the key topics of the discussion include:
As we dive deeper into the holiday season, we wanted to share something fun. You know how sometimes the best gifts are the ones you make yourself? Well, we’ve got some DIY treats up our sleeves!
Here's the deal:
They are super simple but oh-so-impressive.
Great for that person who's got everything (we all have one, right?).
Plus, it's a fun weekend project and smells divine, if we do say so ourselves.
These are the perfect gifts for your neighbors, co-workers, and kid's teachers. They are healthy, practical, and thoughtful.
The Season’s Eatings Recipe Book: FREE Download for you!
Resources mentioned in this episode:
The Season’s Eatings Recipe Book Download: Season's Eatings Recipes
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You can find us on social media or our website at:
Instagram: @girlishgurus
                  @joyalfordbrand
                  @susanlr512
                  @themagicofmenopause
Website: www.girlishgurus.com
 
           
 
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Friday Nov 21, 2025

In this episode of Girlish Gurus, Joy and Lorraine share some tips on eating healthy for the holidays! We share the research, and begin with some yummy side dishes that you can enjoy with your loved ones this holiday season!
Both easy and delicious, we are excited for you to bring some Season's Eatings flair to your holiday table. 
Here's to a deliciously healthy holiday season!
 
Some of the key topics of the discussion include:
🥘Timeless Classics, Refreshed: Love those holiday staples but looking for a healthier spin? We got you.
The Research on Healthy Holiday meals
The Season’s Eatings Recipe Book: FREE Download for you!
 
Resources mentioned in this episode:
The Season’s Eatings Recipe Book Download
Head to our website and look under Goodies!
Forbe’s Healthy Eating for The Holidays
Pacific Neuroscience Institute: How to Enjoy a Healthyish Holiday Meal
Cleveland Clinic: Tips for Eating Healthy During the Holidays
If you’d like to enjoy more podcasts, follow, or subscribe wherever you listen-we are available on Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, Podbean, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or on our YouTube channel!
Don’t forget to follow us and leave a review! We appreciate you!
 
You can find us on social media or our website at:
 
Instagram: @girlishgurus
                    @joyalfordbrand
                    @themagicofmenopause
Website: www.girlishgurus.com      
 
Hashtags:
#healthyholidays #healthysidedishes #seasonseatings #eathealthyfortheholidays #holidaytreats
#holidaycooking #freerecipes #easyholidayrecipes #holidaysidedishes #yummyrecipesfortheholidays #holidayrecipes #holidayrecipeguide #freeholidayrecipes

Friday Nov 07, 2025

Laughter really is the best midlife medicine! This week, the Girlish Gurus, Lorraine & Joy, sit down with the hilarious duo behind The Midlifers — Suzette and Lisa — two women on a mission to celebrate aging with humor, heart, and a healthy dose of real talk.
Calling themselves the “tweens of adulthood,” The Midlifers are sharing the ups, downs, and sideways moments of life in the middle. From extinct names to scout badges for midlife milestones (first colonoscopy badge, anyone?), these two are flipping the script on aging and inviting us all to laugh along the way.
In This Episode, We Chat About:
💬 What inspired The Midlifers and their mission to celebrate aging through laughter🎯 Their goals for building community, joy, and connection among midlife women💌 Some of their funniest and most heartwarming follower comments🎭 How humor helps us embrace the “mess and magic” of midlife🏆 The idea of midlife “badges of honor” for every small victory💥 Tackling the tougher topics — like menopause, the sandwich generation  and rediscovering self-worth — with compassion and wit💞 The privilege of aging and how laughter keeps us resilient, confident, and beautifully alive
Connect with The Midlifers:
👉 Instagram: @Midlifers_👉 Facebook: Midlifers
RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Lifeline Screening: Get Peace of Mind
Connect with The Girlish Gurus:
💖 Follow us for more inspiration, humor, and midlife magic: @GirlishGurus🎧 Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts💫 Visit GirlishGurus.com
#GirlishGurusPodcast #MidlifeHumor #MidlifeWomen #TheMidlifers #AgingGracefully #MidlifeMagic #WomenSupportingWomen #MidlifeLaughs #HotFlashHumor #EmbraceTheChange #MidlifeCommunity #WomenOver50 #MidlifeConfidence #PerimenopauseHumor #AgingBoldly #LaughterIsMedicine #MidlifeSisterhood #EmpoweredMidlifeWomen #GirlishGurus #InspiringMidlifeMagic #genxwomen

Tuesday Oct 21, 2025

Happy Women’s Health Month, Gorgeous Gurus! 🎉
In this special episode, we’re celebrating YOU—your health, your strength, your midlife transformation. October is Women’s Health Month, and we’re marking it by revisiting some of our favorite health-focused Girlish Gurus episodes that have educated, empowered, and inspired thousands of women.
From calming your nervous system to embracing menopause, optimizing gut health, boosting cellular vitality, and gathering in community—this is your invitation to nourish, flourish, and explore your own wellness journey.
Whether you’re walking, journaling, meal-prepping, or soaking in the tub, press play and celebrate the power of being a midlife woman prioritizing her health.
✨ Special Listener Offer:We’re excited to offer Girlish Gurus listeners an exclusive Life Line Screening Package.👉Life Line Screening Get Peace of Mind
 
✨ Don't Forget Our Fall Gift to You:
       CROCKTOBER FREEBIE!
🧠 Highlights from Featured Episodes:
The Vagus Nerve Fix
“When you calm your nervous system, you empower your entire body.”We revisit how vagus nerve stimulation supports digestion, hormone balance, heart health, and emotional regulation. Simple practices like breathwork, humming, cold exposure, and laughter can rewire your nervous system—and your life.
🎧 Listen to the full episode: The Vagus Nerve Fix
 
The Power of Urolithin A (Mitopure)
“It’s like giving your cells a personal trainer!”Discover how this powerful postbiotic supports mitochondrial health and muscle strength as we age. It’s a game-changer for longevity, energy, and aging vibrantly.
🎧 Listen to the full episode: Urolithin A for Cellular Health
 
One Hot Topic: Menopause
“You’re not broken—you’re becoming.”We reflect on the menopause roundtable that brought laughter, tears, and straight talk about hot flashes, hormones, and the myths of midlife. This episode reminds us we’re not alone—and that menopause is a rite of passage, not a medical problem.
🎧 Listen to the full episode: One Hot Topic: Menopause
 
Gut Health for Women – Part One
“Your second brain needs to be heard!”We revisit the mind-blowing connection between gut health and hormones, immunity, mood, and skin. From fermented foods to fiber to emotional digestion, this conversation is a midlife wellness essential.
🎧 Listen to the full episode: Gut Health for Women Part One
 
When Women Gather: The Health Benefits of Sisterhood
“There’s medicine in the circle.”Science confirms what we’ve always known—gathering with women boosts oxytocin, lowers cortisol, and even increases longevity. Whether it's a retreat in Sicily or a coffee with your bestie, connection is a powerful healing tool.
🎧 Listen to the full episode: When Women Gather
 
✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to stimulate your vagus nerve to boost healing
The longevity benefits of Urolithin A
Ways to embrace your menopause transition with confidence
Gut health tips to support mood, energy, and hormones
The science and soul of women’s gatherings
 
📣 Call to Action:
🌸 Share this episode with a woman you love🌸 Re-listen to the full episodes linked above🌸 Join our upcoming retreats to experience “When Women Gather” in real life!🌸 Connect with us on IG: @GirlishGurus
 
🔖 Resources & Mentions:
The Vagus Nerve Fix (Book by Lorraine Miano)
Mitopure / Timeline Nutrition
Amble & Rove Sicily Retreats
Podcast archives on GirlishGurus.com
 
💬 Let’s Keep the Conversation Going:
Tell us: Which health topic resonated with you most?DM us or tag us using:#WomensHealthMonth #MidlifeMagic #GirlishGurus #NourishFlourishExplore #MenopauseSupport #GutHealthMatters #SisterhoodHeals

Tuesday Oct 07, 2025

October is Women’s Health Month, and to celebrate, we’re resharing one of our most important conversations to date — a powerful episode originally aired during National Heart Month, featuring Alicia Botyrius of Life Line Screening.
❤️ Did you know that cardiovascular disease is the #1 cause of death for women?
It’s time to change that. Prevention, awareness, and education are key — and this episode is packed with all three.
🩺 In this episode, you’ll hear:
Joy & Lorraine as they sit down with Alicia for a heart-centered and life-saving conversation about:
Why preventive health screenings are essential for women over 40
How even with health insurance and regular doctor visits, screenings like those offered by Life Line Screening can catch silent threats before symptoms appear
What to expect during a Life Line Screening — spoiler: they’re quick, easy, and painless!
Who should get screened and how often
What’s included in the 5-screening package
Alicia also shares her own personal mission for wellness — one that blends modern medicine with holistic wisdom (and yes, even dark chocolate 🍫) — to help people live longer, more vibrant lives.
👩‍⚕️ About Our Guest:
Alicia Botyrius has over a decade of experience in the health and wellness space. She’s a passionate advocate for integrating traditional medicine with holistic modalities, from the power of infrared saunas to preventive care. Through her work and example, Alicia encourages everyone — especially women — to prioritize their well-being and embrace new paths to vibrant health.
 
💖 About Life Line Screening:
For over 30 years, Life Line Screening has helped over 10 million people take charge of their health through preventive screenings for stroke, cardiovascular disease, and other chronic illnesses.
✨ Special Listener Offer:We’re excited to offer Girlish Gurus listeners an exclusive Life Line Screening Package.👉 Life Line Screening Get Peace of Mind
 
🧭 Resources Mentioned:
✅ Life Line Screening: SPECIAL OFFER
📄 Lorraine’s article: The Leading Cause of Death for Women
📺 YouTube Video: Girlish Gurus Go to Lifeline Screening
🎧 Tune In & Share:
Please share this episode with your loved ones — because often, the first symptom of cardiovascular disease is a stroke. Your share could save a life. 💓
 
🌐 Stay Connected:
Follow us for more inspiration, updates, and episodes celebrating vibrant midlife living:
Instagram:@girlishgurus | @joyalfordbrand | @themagicofmenopauseYouTube: Girlish GurusWebsite: www.girlishgurus.com
 
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#bestyears #JoyAlfordBrand #LorraineMiano #LifelineScreening #themagicofmenopause #joyandhappiness #happinessandjoy#hearthealth #womenover40 #womenover50 #womenover60 #cardiovasculardisease #podcast #womenshealth#preventativescreening #womensupportingwomen #womenempowerment #Midlifewomen #menopause#lifeover50 #empoweringwomen #menopositivity #womenshealth #cardiovascularhealth#strokeprevention #heartdiseaseprevention #thirdact #babyboomerwomen #genxwomen #womenshealthmonth

Sunday Sep 21, 2025

Guest:D.H. Morris — historical fiction author, playwright, grandmother of eleven, global traveler, and eternal student of history.
 
🪄 Episode Summary:
In this inspiring episode of Girlish Gurus, we step into the 9th century through the pen of author D.H. Morris, who brings to life the powerful and little-known story of Judith of France in her novel The Girl of Many Crowns. But this isn’t just about medieval royalty—it’s about reclaiming women’s voices, exploring creativity in midlife, and writing from the heart.
From her days as a choral music teacher and playwright to raising four children across four continents, D.H. shares how her personal genealogy research sparked a passion that blossomed into a beautifully written historical novel rooted in deep research, emotional storytelling, and feminist fire.
 
👑 Topics We Explore:
What drew D.H. to the 9th century, and how she researched everything from royal marriage customs to medieval medicine
How she balanced historical authenticity with emotional storytelling in The Girl of Many Crowns
Her most challenging chapter—and her favorite writing moment
What she hopes readers take away from Judith and Baldwin’s love story
How it feels to see parts of herself reflected in her characters
Why she believes it’s never too late to start writing your own story
What she’d love to see on screen if her book became a mini-series
Her heartfelt advice for aspiring authors—especially those inspired by their own family histories
 
 
📚 About the Book:
The Girl of Many Crowns is a gripping historical novel set in the 9th century, following the life of Judith, daughter of Charles the Bald, who becomes queen—twice. Blending real historical events with rich character arcs and emotional depth, this novel is perfect for fans of strong female protagonists, royal intrigue, and deeply human love stories.
 
🔗 Connect with D.H. Morris:
📘 Book Website: newclassicspublishing.com
📚 The Girl of Many Crowns on Amazon: Buy the Book
📸 Instagram: @dhmorris00
RESOURCES IN THIS EPISODE:
Life Line Screening: Get Peace of Mind:
 
 
🎧 Listen Now:
Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and wherever you tune into Girlish Gurus.
Watch extended version on YouTube
 
📲 Share This Episode:
If this episode inspired you to research your own ancestry or write the book that’s been living inside you—share it with a fellow creative soul who’s ready to reclaim her crown 👑
 
🔖 Hashtags:
#GirlishGurus #WomenWhoWrite #HistoricalFictionLovers #TheGirlOfManyCrowns #DHMorris #WomenOfHistory #CreativeGrandma #EmpoweredAging #ProAging #9thCenturyQueens #JudithOfFrance #WriteYourStory #MidlifeCreativity #AgingBoldly #HeroinesInHistory #PodcastForWomen #StorytellingMatters #FeminineLegacy #MidlifeWriters #InspiredWomenWrite #HistoricalHeroines #GenealogyToNovel #AuthorsOver50 #WomenOver50

Sunday Sep 07, 2025

💫 Episode Summary:What if the most powerful healing tool wasn’t a prescription or a procedure… but the ability to open your heart?
In this deeply moving episode of Girlish Gurus, we explore the extraordinary true story behind Dr. James R. Doty's book Into the Magic Shop—a memoir that blends neuroscience with soul, and trauma with transcendence.
At just 12 years old, growing up in poverty and chaos, Doty walked into a magic shop looking for tricks… and instead met Ruth, a woman who changed his life forever. What she taught him wasn’t sleight of hand, but the real magic: how to calm his body, quiet his mind, open his heart, and shape his future with clear intention.
These same practices would later carry him through medical school, into the operating room as a world-class neurosurgeon—and, eventually, into a spiritual awakening that reminded him of what really matters.
🎧 In this episode, you’ll:
Follow Doty’s incredible story from pain to purpose
Learn the four life-changing practices Ruth taught him
Experience a full 5-minute guided ritual with us
Discover how science confirms what the heart already knows
Explore how these tools can help you navigate anxiety, transition, and midlife reinvention
This isn’t just a book review—it’s an invitation to remember your own magic. To reclaim the calm within the chaos. To lead with love, not fear. And to know that no matter your past, healing is possible.
Whether you’re in a season of change, grief, growth, or new beginnings… this story will move you. And the practices will meet you exactly where you are.
 
🌱 Gentle Reflection Prompts:
What intention are you carrying into this season of your life?
What might change if you softened your body before reacting?
Where in your week could you give yourself 5 minutes of pure compassion?
RESOURCES IN THIS EPISODE:
INTO THE MAGIC SHOP by Dr. James Doty
The Vagus Nerve Fix by Lorraine Miano
Life Line Screening: Get Peace of Mind:
🎧 Listen Now:
Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and wherever you tune into Girlish Gurus.
YouTube: https://youtu.be/0XU6AyC95MU
 
👭 Share the magic:Tag @GirlishGurus with your thoughts, intentions, or practice space. Let’s inspire each other to keep growing, glowing, and living with wide-open hearts.
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Thursday Aug 21, 2025

What happens when you give birth in a country that isn’t your own, raise kids between cultures, and decide to write your way through the madness—with humor? You get Rosamaria Mancini’s brilliant, hilarious, and heartwarming world.
In this episode, we sit down with Rosamaria—writer, mother,  and author of SOS Podcasts: A Memoir—to chat about podcasts, parenting across Italy and Germany, writing through the chaos, and why laughing at life’s curveballs is sometimes the only way to survive them.
What We Chat About:💬 What inspired SOS Podcasts: A Memoir🎧 How podcasts became her creative sanctuary👶 Giving birth abroad: the beautiful, bizarre, and bureaucratic🍝 Parenting Italian vs German style🌧️ Does it really rain all the time in Germany? (Spoiler: yes, and you deal with it)📚 Why her memoir is a must-read for women navigating motherhood, identity, and reinvention
RESOURCES IN THIS EPISODE:🌍 www.rosamariamancini.com📖 Book: SOS Podcasts: A Memoir📸 IG: @rosamariamancini
Life Line Screening: Get Peace of Mind:
 
#GirlishGurusPodcast#PodcastInterview#WomenWhoPodcast#MemoirWriting#AuthorInterview#PodcastsAMemoir#RosamariaMancini#WomenWhoWrite#StorytellingMatters#ExpatWriter#WritersOfInstagram
#MotherhoodAbroad#ExpatMoms
#ParentingAcrossCultures#CrossCulturalParenting
#LifeBetweenCultures#LivingAbroad#ExpatLife#ItalyToGermany#LifeInTranslation#CultureShock#RainyDayRealness#RealLifeStories#FindingYourVoice
#InspiredLiving#BoldWomenVoices#WomenOver40#LivingYourStory
#Womenover50
#Womenover60

Thursday Aug 07, 2025

In this enlightening episode, Joy and Lorraine sit down with Stephanie Hrehirchuk—writer, coach, teacher, and multi-award-winning author of An Accidental Awakening. With a background in personal training, nutrition, and Ayurveda, and over 25 years of experience in health and personal development, Stephanie brings a grounded and soulful perspective to movement and healing.
Together, they explore how Qigong, an ancient practice of gentle movement, breath, and energy flow, can be a powerful ally during menopause. Stephanie shares how she created a menopause-specific Qigong program to help women restore balance, ease symptoms, and reclaim vitality.
Some of the key topics of the discussion include:
What Qigong is and how it works with women’s bodies and energy systems
Why menopause deserves its own unique approach to movement
Common menopause symptoms that Qigong can help ease—like anxiety, insomnia, and hot flashes
Success stories from Stephanie’s students
How her online program is different from traditional fitness or Qigong classes
A simple Qigong practice you can try today
How to join her program and stay connected with her work
Resources & Links:👉 Connect with Stephanie and explore her Qigong program: Stephanie Hrehirchuk – Author
👉 Follow Stephanie on Instagram: Instagram👉 Get her award-winning book An Accidental Awakening
Life Line Screening: Get Peace of Mind:
 
#GirlishGurus #MidlifeWomen #StephanieHrehirchuk  #AnAccidentalAwakening #QiGong #QiGongForMenopause #WomenOver50 #MovementforMenopause #WomenInBusiness #Menopause #PostMenopause #MidlifeMagic #GlowUpAtAnyAge #Perimenopause #WomenSupportingWomen #womenover60 #womenover50 #womenover40 #LorraineMiano #JoyAlfordBrand #podcast #podcastforwomen #bestyears #passionandpurpose #midlifepassion #GenX #babyboomer #movementmatters #glowup

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